Rest in the Wrestle Retreat

2nd Annual With Inc. Retreat

April 26th-28th, 2019

The Cove
Asheville, NC

With Inc. is hosting a spiritual retreat entitled Rest in the Wrestle.  Come and join us as we think and talk together about how God calls out to us and joins us in the midst of our suffering and unexpectedly inspires us with the better hope of knowing him and ourselves as we live life together in community.  We’ll be reflecting on the life of the apostle Paul in the book of Philippians to discover and learn about Paul’s view of how suffering leads us to Rest in the Wrestle.

What if God planned for us to experience our deepest joy and rest as we journey through the desert and wilderness of our deepest fears and sorrows, together?

Who Is This For?

Rest in the Wrestle is designed for anyone feeling stuck, disappointed, baffled by life, or struggling to find hope. Perhaps you can relate to some of the things past attendees have been wrestling with:

  • Feeling miserable at work
  • A struggling marriage
  • Grieving the loss of a loved one
  • Weariness in ministry
  • Fighting to overcome an addiction
  • Questioning things but afraid to talk to anyone about it
  • A single person afraid to hope and unsure how to fit into a world of couples
  • Just needing some encouragement

Come join us for an intimate weekend of discussion and reflection as we learn what it means to rest in the wrestle of life.

The Experience

We’ll be staying at The Cove, nestled in the foothills of the Smoky Mountains near Asheville, NC. This beautiful location will be the setting for a weekend of community, reflection, and renewal.

The Cove aerial view in autumn
I can honestly say I have never been part of a retreat like this. In a world where everyone has strong and differing opinions which has led to the ending of relationships, this was a refreshing time. We were given the space to wrestle with things we have been afraid to voice and yet we were met with love and curiosity by our speaker and the other attendees. I am going back!
– 2018 attendee

We’ll have group sessions and times for worship and prayer along with personal time to journal and reflect. There will also be free time to take a hike, soak up the sun, and enjoy the peaceful setting.

A group of women praying
Last year’s retreat was a significant confidence boost in both my walk with Jesus and in the calling He’s placed on my life in this season. I was in a season of doubt and discouragement and the With retreat created a healthy space biblically and emotionally to help me move forward.
– Campus ministry pastor and father of two

The Schedule


  • 4:00PMCheck-in at The Cove main building
  • Dinner is on your own
  • 6:30PMSession One
The Cove Training Center lobby


  • 7:30AM Breakfast at The Cove main dining room
  • 9:00AM Session Two
  • 10:15AM Break
  • 10:30AM Session Three
  • Lunch on your own and free afternoon
  • 5:30PM Dinner together in the main dining room
  • 6:30PM Session Four
The Cove outdoor stairway at the training center


  • 7:30AM Breakfast at The Cove main dining room
  • 9:00AM Session Five and closing
The Cove dining room

Your Speakers

Fred Feliciano

Fred Feliciano headshotFred is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, spiritual director and teacher from the Tampa area. Beth likes to refer to Fred as “Yoda.” Fred is wise, a God-gifted teacher of Scripture and the ability to point others to Jesus in the midst of what might feel like impossible and bleak situations. He has been married to his bride, Sarah, for 23 years and they have four children.

Beth Wayland

Beth Wayland headshotBeth calls Knoxville, Tennessee home. She has worked in ministry settings for 21 years. In 2012 Beth graduated from Richmont Graduate University with her MA in Couseling. She specializes in spiritual direction and loves looking at what Scripture has to say about caring for our souls and relating to and with one another.

The Details

We’ve reserved spots for 30 attendees, and they’re filling up fast!

The cost covers lodging, two breakfasts and one dinner.
For singles: $299
For couples: $599

Registration deadline is April 1st and is nonrefundable.

Register Here